Message from Father to Son

What Does It Mean To Be A Man?

From John Crisler to Jace Crisler

Commitment

Definition“The state or quality of being dedicated to a cause or activity”

My thoughts:  This is the act of doing what you say, which goes to honesty.  This also requires a work ethic to follow through with your responsibilities.

Integrity 

Definition: “The quality of being honest and having strong moral principles; moral uprightness.”

My thoughts:  This goes toward developing credibility and trust in others.  It usually leads to respect by others.

Respect

Definition: “A feeling of deep admiration for someone elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements”

My thoughts:  Respect is like love; the move you give, the more you get.  Everything you do can lead to increased or decreased respect of you by others.

Responsibility 

Definition 1: “The opportunity or ability to act independently and make decisions without authorization.”

Definition 2: “The state or fact of being accountable or to blame for something.”

My thoughts:  The less commitment, integrity, and respect you display; the less responsibility you will have.  On the other hand, the more responsibility you display, your stock will rise in the other three categories.


Questions that need to be answered:

(Answers will not stay the same throughout life.  Details can change or become more/less detailed over time.)

  • Who are you?
  • What are your goals?
  • What is important to you?
  • What do you want for your future?